Curious about Lily Allen and David Harbour’s split? Fans of the Smile singer and the Stranger Things actor have followed their romance from its early days to their whirlwind Las Vegas wedding. Over the years, the couple shared candid glimpses into their marriage, making their recent separation all the more surprising.
Here’s everything you need to know about Lily Allen and David Harbour’s relationship, their time together, and what led to their split.
What happened to David Harbour and Lily Allen?
Lily Allen and David Harbour have separated after four years of marriage.
Multiple sources confirmed to People that the couple, who wed in 2020, have decided to part ways. “Her marriage has been crumbling,” an insider exclusively told People, adding, “and they have split.” Neither Allen nor Harbour’s representatives have responded to requests for comment.
Allen previously hinted at personal struggles on the December 16, 2024, episode of her BBC podcast Miss Me? with Miquita Oliver, where she acknowledged going through a “tough time.” Although she did not specify the cause, she mentioned its impact on her mental health and eating habits. Harbour, for his part, had spoken fondly about their marriage in interviews as recently as November 2023, describing how they continued to grow closer over time.
The couple connected on the celebrity dating app Raya and was linked romantically in January 2019. They confirmed their relationship in October 2019 and married in September 2020 in Las Vegas.
Throughout their relationship, Allen and Harbour provided insights into their unconventional dynamics, including their use of controlled phone apps and Allen’s OnlyFans account. In previous interviews, Allen mentioned that she sometimes turned down Harbour’s advances in bed, while Harbour shared that a conversation he had with Allen’s daughters made him realize he wanted to marry her. Their split marks the end of a highly publicized and candidly open relationship.